Just like adults, not all preschoolers are morning people! Some are cranky in the mornings; others are slow. Trying to get an uncooperative preschooler out the door and to school on time can be a challenge. But if you prepare ahead of time, you can make the mornings easier on your little one. Here's what you need to know.
Have your child's clothing, shoes, bag, and other items ready to go the night before. This way, your preschooler can get dressed faster and more efficiently. This also prevents meltdowns when a shoe is missing, or they can't find their favorite sweater on the way out the door.
Preschoolers thrive on routines. Establish a clear, consistent routine for school mornings so that your child will know what to expect. This will allow your child to be more independent in the morning and may reduce arguments.
Preschoolers love to make choices about things that affect their lives. When they have choices, many become more cooperative and compliant. Give your child ownership over their morning routine by allowing your child a choice of weather-appropriate clothing and shoes.
Doing this will prevent the "but I don't want to wear that!" argument. To avoid issues with food, allow your child to choose what they will eat for breakfast and lunch.
Young children learn best through experience. Ask your child to practice their morning routine, either by replicating it on weekend mornings or simply by pretending it is morning at a different time of the day. Turn this into a game and use a stopwatch to time your child's speed, and then challenge your child to beat their best time.
Reward your child if they're ready before it's time to go out the door by allowing them to have time for a preferred activity. Give them a few minutes of screen time or time to play with a favorite toy. If there isn't enough time, you could also allow your child to earn a preferred activity that they can do in the car on their way to preschool.
Shave time off your morning routine by switching to foods that you can make in advance, like overnight oats or make-ahead breakfast bars. Stay away from foods that have to be made on the spot, like eggs or toast. This will free up more time for you to be active in your preschooler's morning routine, so it will be easier for you to keep them on task.
If your child still struggles with their morning routine after you implement these suggestions, your child may be overly tired. Move your child's bedtime to an earlier time, and see if getting an extra half an hour to an hour of sleep makes the morning go more smoothly.
While you examine sleep schedules, take a look at your own. If you feel off in the mornings, your child may be responding to (and mirroring) your emotional state. Go to bed earlier, and get up with enough time to have a cup of coffee before waking your child for the morning.
A lot of kids struggle with preschool in the beginning. Changes to routines, new children, and strange places can be a challenge. If your little one has trouble with preschool, talk to your child's preschool teacher for suggestions.
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